by Jack Evans, St. Timothy's, Columbia
Dateline: Richmond, Virginia, July 25, 2015
It was some three or four months ago that we received a colorful card
from my wife Mary’s brother Frank and sister-in-law Arja advising us to hold the above
date open for their son Harri’s wedding. We duly recorded the date on all our
calendars and stood by for further instructions.
As the day approached we received an invitation with further
instructions as to the time and location of said wedding and all the
celebrations that went along with it.
During the following weeks I was working hard to gain a full recovery
from a terrible fall I had had on Good Friday, April 3rd off the front
porch of a cousin’s house in Calhoun Falls, SC. Fortunately I was able to
prepare for the big day coming on July 25.
The wedding was set to take place on the second floor of the Richmond
Railroad Station, the reception on the first floor and then back to the second
floor for dinner. I was anxious to see how the scenes would be set for this
undertaking.
A few weeks prior to the wedding I was honored to be asked to play a
speaking part in the wedding by reading Scripture that would be assigned to me
as the day approached. It turned out to be verses from Chapters 2 and 8 of the
Song of Solomon so I began getting familiar with the script that Solomon
presented.
The day of departure finally arrived and we left for Virginia on
July 24 with grandchildren Thomas and Anna and all our luggage in the Honda
Van. Our son Worthy drove up alone and we all arrived at or about the same time
on Friday afternoon. Reservations were set for all of us at a Comfort Suites
Inn just north of Richmond and cocktails and dinner were scheduled for that
evening. The hotel was great as was the restaurant and a good time was enjoyed
by all of us, along with perhaps a hundred other guests.
The wedding day dawned beautifully in the suburbs and we all prepared
for the trip to the railroad station. We arrived in plenty of time and the
“set” was arranged perfectly for the wedding itself: Plenty of seating with
white folding chairs. As we arrived, the tiny clergy lady, a priest from a
nearby Episcopal Church was arranging a portable lectern and microphone. She
was not really ancient but she did look to be at or near retirement. She was
most pleasant and very alert as to all that was happening around her. She
briefed me on how she would signal when it was time for me to read and handed
me a bible with the total reading taped inside the bible all clear on one sheet
of paper. I was the first reader and two others came behind me. We were to hand the bible off to each other.
The beautiful bride and dashingly handsome groom soon arrived for the
beginning of the wedding and the priest spoke a few words to them
assuring everyone that they accepted each other as man and wife. Then the
readings took place. Afterward the priest did the usual reading of the marriage
words with a short homily, and then the bride and groom stated their final vows.
It was a most spiritual and meaningful wedding ceremony and perhaps the most
beautiful unfolding of a wedding I had ever seen or been part of in my
lifetime, all taking place in a railroad station with no mention of a church of
any kind. The tiny little priest was really effective in proving that God is
not restricted to the inside of the four walls of a church but could be present
in everything at anytime, anywhere and He was surely present on this particular
day in Richmond, Virginia, down at the Railroad Station.
Amen and Amen.
Jack Evans is a long-time communicant of EDUSC and has served as senior warden and in many other capacities in several parishes.